Comments on: Are All Men Pedophiles?

By: Julie Fletcher

Julie Fletcher — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 00:11:04 +0000

Wow.

Just. Um…I can’t even begin to answer this right this moment without turning into a foaming at the mouth b*.

By: A

Sat, 19 Apr 2008 00:05:01 +0000

Well first off, I think theres nothing wrong about having sexual feelings, urges or even relationships with children as long as they arent hurt in any way. Now People may argue that even having such a relationship with them will hurt them, but why is that, because its parents and society are telling children that its wrong and that causes them to feel embarassed, abused and violated. Thus if a adult has a sexual relationship with a child without harming him/her in any way explaining every little detail and leaving the child to decide what makes it still wrong , because society in its majority has deemed it unusual, unconventional and harmful. Im sorry but thats ignorant. Think about it, 30 years ago we never had these child molesting issues we have now, we didnt have people raping, molesting and murdering children left, right and center. Why is this, because it wasnt as evil and immoral back then to just love or have sexual urges over a child or look lustfully at a child (dont get me wrong raping, molesting, abusing or harming anybody, nevermind a child, is and always should be pure evil), thus people portrayed it as weird but it wasnt a serious crime. Now just hinting at the faintest clue of having sexual urges or no just finding children sexually attractive automatically makes you satan incarnate. This causes a lot more tension and stress on people and as time rolls on and the responses and punishments getting worse for acts that seemed not so bad 30 years ago people tend to get a little more psychotic and out of control thus the increase in child molesting that we see today. Think of it this way, 30 years ago child rape and molesting were virtually unheard of now its one of the most occuring crimes, I mean do the math. Finally thats where my urges come in, I wouldnt mind having a sexual relationship with a prepubescent girl, completely consensual, I mean I cant stress enough the fact on how much I hate child rapests, molesters and murderers I mean I do like girls on a higher level than normal people thus its only natural for me to hate those that hurt them in any way, I sometimes just get pissed if a parent would ignore or yell at their daughter in the mall. Im just saying its unfair that society clumps true pedophiles (child lovers) with child molesters (those that hurt children). I just hope that some day society can open their eyes, and start embracing individuality than pushing it away.

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By: Julie Fletcher

Julie Fletcher — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 13:36:47 +0000

@Marye- That’s one reason I said I wasn’t linking to the original post. This post isn’t really a reply to it, more of a post about the path my mind went down concerning preconceptions about men.

I’m terribly sorry to hear about what happened with your children. I hope that they heal (or have healed) as much as possible. That is a horrible thing to live with.

(To clear things up for anyone else who reads, the post I referred to in the beginning, turns out the mom knows the man in question and his mannerisms are not those of a ‘normal’ well intentioned father. He really does seem to be a creep, male or not)

By: marye

marye — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 05:53:34 +0000

Julie-
while I do see your point…a man telling a little girl that she is the prettiest girl is school sends off red flags to me.
Maybe I am prejudiced.Of my 8 children one was sexually molested repeatedly by an adult female and one was sexually harrassed by an adult male. Does this make me more cautious than the average mom? Maybe. Maybe my kids are just more attractive than anyone elses’…or maybe there are a LOT of bad guys out there and they don’t always have the courtesy to wear black hats.
Guys..and girls…step one foot over the comfort zone with my kids and mama bear will be growling.

By: Music City Bloggers » Blog Archive » Are All Men Pedophiles?

Music City Bloggers » Blog Archive » Are All Men Pedophiles? — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 20:25:18 +0000

[...] The examination of this question is being ably handled by Laura Fuller at the Family Resource Blog. In today’s society, it is generally ok for a woman to say she loves children. For a mother to be present at school functions or even in classes, if a man states he loves children the first thought that often comes to mind is ‘Oh my gosh, he must be a pedophile’ or ‘That is so weird’. So generally, all men who love children is a pedophile in many minds. I’ve seen enough of this type of talk in forums, chats, and in person to know this is a major frame of mind. [...]