The Many Faces We Wear (Part 2 of 2)

As I mentioned in Part 1, a subpersonality is a constellation of feelings, attitudes and behavior which is solidified and emerges out of a specific need. Subpersonalites develop as a way of getting along in the world, and are the faces that we project to others. Each subpersonality is a distinct energy system. Each represents “a person who lives within us” or our various styles of relating to the world.

Picking A Mover

The most important endeavor you will face in the beginning stages of your move is to “pick a mover”. This process can make many people pretty nervous because of all the horror stories that have hovered over the moving industry through the decades.

The Many Faces We Wear (Part 1 of 2)

By identifying and understanding the various characteristics of our subpersonalities, we are able to learn to dis-identify from their contents when we choose to. By learning to observe and detach, we can maintain a healthy sense of self that recognizes and can integrate the many faces we wear.

If I Can, You Can: How To Can Fruits And Vegetables

A simple urge to create and make things by hand is becoming an all around pervasive notion. We are rediscovering our past and redefining who we are in this culture. Canning fruits and vegetables is one of those lost techniques that Lisa Donovan has discovered. In her personal quest to break away from a culture of instant and modified food, she provides great tips, pictures and recipes on how to can your own food.

Why Grown Men Don’t Eat Quiche Or Go To Counseling

It has been my experience that many men have an underlying set of beliefs that run counter to the notion of pursuing personal counseling. What is it that makes many adult males experience an adverse reaction to the concept of counseling? What holds men back from a process that has the potential to provide support, nurturing and emotional healing?

The Power of Paradoxical Thinking: The Implications of Paradoxical Thinking (Part 2 of 2)

How we think about issues determines the kinds of assumptions that we make, and affects our behavior for better or for worse. Paradoxical thinking turns our normal manner of viewing problems upside-down. Common sense may seem to be discounted as we reflect on choices and behaviors that impact our life.

The Power of Paradoxical Thinking: Understanding Paradoxical Thinking (Part 1 of 2)

Paradoxical thinking is a different way of contemplating and resolving problems. Often, doing the very opposite of what would be considered the natural reaction to events is essential to personal growth and development. This, according to the Chinese sages, is called the law of reverse effort. Paradoxical thinking may play a role in shaping the way we respond to spiritual and psychological issues, personal values, and our general behavior.

How To Will Yourself To Success

One aspect of the human dilemma is gathering the strength and courage to break through the impasse of personal problems consisting of avoidance and fear — the twin killers of personal growth. Why is it that some people can motivate themselves and accomplish everyday tasks and set long-term goals? On the contrary, why is it that some individuals avoid, procrastinate, and waste valuable time agonizing about their inability to carry out self-rewarding behaviors?

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