Breastfeeding Mom’s Sore Nipples
By: Anne Smith
Nipple soreness is one of the most common reasons new mothers give for discontinuing breastfeeding, often during the first week of nursing. This is quite unfortunate, for nipple soreness is almost always a short-term problem, and can usually be corrected in a matter of days. Breastfeeding isn't supposed to hurt, but the fact of the matter is that most mothers will experience some degree of soreness during the early stages of nursing. It is common to feel some discomfort when the baby first latches on, especially in the first days after birth before the milk has come in. This type of soreness will usually ease up after the first few sucks, especially after the milk lets down and flows freely.
You and your baby both have to learn how to breastfeed. Babies are born with a strong sucking reflex (they even suck their fingers in utero), but they have to learn the mechanics of breastfeeding, at the same time you are learning the mechanics of positioning, supporting the breast, etc. While some babies seem to come into the world knowing just how to breastfeed correctly, more often it is a learning process for both of you.
Nipple soreness will usually begin during the first few days of nursing, will peak on the fourth or fifth day, and then ease off each day after that.Soreness should lessen greatly on days 7-10, and by the time the baby is two weeks old, nursing should be pain free. If your nipples crack or bleed, if the pain persists during the entire feeding or between feedings, if you experience a burning sensation, or the pain persists beyond the first week, you need to seek help from an experienced lactation counselor in order to identify and correct the problem.
By far the most common cause of nipple soreness is improper latch on and positioning. Remember that the baby has to learn how to nurse correctly. It can take awhile for a newborn, with his immature system, to master the mechanics of nursing. The slightest improper movement of his lips, tongue, or gums can abrade the nipple tissue and cause soreness. With every feeding, he will be better able to coordinate his movements, and will soon get the hang of nursing correctly and efficiently.
Here are the basics of correct latch on and positioning, which can minimize or eliminate soreness:
- The classic cradle hold is the most common nursing position. Sit upright in a comfortable chair, with a pillow supporting your back, one under the arm holding the baby, and another in your lap to bring him up to the level of your breast. You will be spending a lot of time in this position, so make sure that you are comfortable, and are not straining the muscles in your arm, neck, shoulder, or back.
- Your baby should be positioned on his side, with his whole body facing yours. He should not have to turn his head to reach your breast (try turning your head to one side and swallowing you'll be surprised at how difficult it is to do).
- Cradle his head in the crook of your arm, with his body along your forearm and your hand cupped under his thighs or buttocks. His ear, shoulder, and hip should be in a straight line.
- When you offer your breast, use your free hand to support it with your thumb on top and hand underneath, forming a "C". Make sure your thumb and fingers are behind the areola (the dark area around the nipple). Gently stroke his lower lip with your nipple this will encourage him to reflexively open his mouth. Wait for him to open wide, like a yawn, then quickly pull him in close with the arm that is supporting him. Bring him to the breast rather than pushing the breast toward him.
- His mouth should cover a large portion of the areola (at least an inch). If your areola is large, his mouth may not cover the entire area, but he should be far enough back on the areola so that his gums bypass the nipple and compress the milk sinuses underneath the areola. The nipple should be centered in his mouth, above his tongue.
- He should be pulled in close so that both his nose and his chin touch your breast. Don't be afraid that he won't be able to breathe. If his nose does seem to be blocked, lift your breast or pull him in closer to you. If you press down on the top of the breast to create an airway, you may pull the nipple to the front of his mouth, which can cause nipple soreness.
- When a baby is latched on correctly, his lips will be flanged out (not sucked in if he tends to suck in his lip, just gently pull it out), and the nipple will be farback in his mouth, with his tongue extended over his gums and underneath the nipple. In this position, you will feel a pulling and tugging sensation as he compresses the milk sinuses, but there will be no way for his tongue, gums, or lips to abrade your nipple tissue.
- If he is nursing correctly, you should feel little or no pain. If he seems to be latched on incorrectly, or if nursing hurts, don't be a martyr. Slip your finger in the corner of his mouth to break the suction, take him off the breast, and start over. Don't let him continue to nurse incorrectly. Keep trying until you get it right.If you get frustrated, stop for a minute and try again when you are calmer. You may want to give him your finger to suck until he settles down. Most babies will get the hang of latching on correctly within a couple of days.
- If your nipples are extremely sore, alternating positions has the advantage of putting pressure on different parts of the nipple. The football, or clutch hold, is another popular nursing position. It is especially useful for the mother who has large breasts, flat or inverted nipples, or who has had a cesarean birth. To position your baby in the football hold, use pillows to raise the baby up to the level of your breast. Hold his head in the palm of your hand and tuck his legs under your arm, close to your body. His buttocks will be up against the back of the chair or bed with his legs flexed upward. Remember, whatever position you are using, keep him pulled in close so that he can pull the nipple far back into his mouth and nurse effectively.
Most cases of nipple soreness are caused by improper latch on and positioning and will heal within a matter of days once the baby is nursing properly. There are other causes of soreness, however, which are less common. These include:
- Engorgement: when the breasts become so full of milk that they are hard and tight, the nipple may flatten out (imagine a water balloon) and difficult for the baby to grasp. The baby may not be able to pull the nipple far enough back in his mouth to effectively compress the sinuses behind the areola. Try to avoid engorgement by nursing frequently. When your nipples are sore, there is a tendency to avoid nursing often, but this only compounds the problem. If your breasts do become engorged, try massaging your breasts, applying heat, and expressing a small amount of milk before offering the breast to soften the areola and make it easier for him to grasp hold of. (see article on Engorgement for more information).
- Nipple confusion: Some babies switch back and forth from breast and bottle beautifully from day one with no complications. However, the mechanics of breast and bottle-feeding are quite different, and it is best to avoid introducing artificial nipples until the baby has mastered the mechanics of nursing at the breast. With an artificial nipple, the baby uses his tongue to press against the hard rubber to control the steady flow of milk, and may try to do the same thing when he pulls his mom's soft, mushy nipple into his mouth. This can cause his tongue to rub against the nipple and make it sore. It is best, if possible, to avoid the use of bottle nipples or pacifiers until the baby has become well established at breastfeeding usually after the first several weeks.
- Flat or inverted nipples: Truly inverted nipples (when pinched, these nipples retract and disappear) are very rare. Flat nipples are more common, but the baby's sucking can usually draw them out. Flat nipples will usually protrude gradually during the pregnancy, and the baby's sucking often draws them out with no problems. If flat or inverted nipples are diagnosed during pregnancy, wearing breast shells inside your bra may help correct the problem. If flat nipples present problems with latch on, pumping before feedings can help draw the nipple out. Use of a nipple shield (a clear silicone shield shaped like a nipple that is worn over the breast during feedings) may be useful, but only if used under the guidance of a knowledgeable lactation professional, as improper use can create problems. (See the article on Flat and Inverted Nipples for more information.)
- Removing the baby from the breast improperly: Once your milk comes in and the baby is effectively nursing, he will usually fall off the breast in a drunken stupor as he falls asleep, often with milk drooling out the side of his mouth. If you need to end the feeding before he decides he is finished, don't try to pull him off. Instead, break the suction by pulling down on his chin, pressing down on your breast near his mouth, or putting your finger in the corner of his mouth to break the suction.
- Medical causes: these include thrush, or yeast ( a very common, but often undiagnosed cause of nipple pain), Eczema, Herpes, Impetigo, Staph infections, improper use of breast pumps (there are some absolutely terrible pumps on the market), allergies, and pregnancy (yes, it is possible to become pregnant while nursing highly unlikely while exclusively breastfeeding, but possible ), and Anklyoglossia (more commonly know as "tongue-tie")
Treatment for nipple soreness varies. What follows is a treatment plan for the common, transient soreness that most often occurs during the early days of nursing. If this plan doesn't work for you, or if soreness persists or worsens after the initial breastfeeding period, consult a lactation professional who can evaluate the situation and see if additional help is needed. Remember, breastfeeding is not supposed to hurt!
- Vary nursing positions to put pressure on different parts of the nipple.
- Begin nursing on the least sore side first until the milk lets down, then gently switch to the other breast. Use relaxation breathing until your milk lets down. You may want to use massage, warm compresses, and gentle hand expression to stimulate the let-down before you put baby on the breast so that he doesn't have to suck vigorously while he waits for the milk to let down.
- Express a little colostrum or milk onto your nipples after nursing and let it dry. Human milk has anti-bacterial properties.
- If your nipple has cracked, dab some hydrogen peroxide onto the crack with a Q-tip. This will help kill the bacteria from the baby's mouth which can enter through the opening in the skin and cause infection. Don't be shocked if your nipples bleed and your baby swallows some of the blood. As gross as this may sound, the small amount of blood will not hurt the baby. I mention this only because the milk may show up in the baby's stool or spit up, and before you panic, be aware that if your nipples are cracked and bleeding, the blood is probably yours and not the baby's. You should always call the doctor if blood appears in your baby's spit-up or stool, as it may be due to other causes, such as ulcers or allergies. If you see bright red blood, clotted blood, or large amounts of blood you should contact your doctor or go to the emergency room right away.
- Applying modified anhydrous lanolin after nursing ( Lansinoh or Purelan are the brands to look for) may aid in healing. Surface wetness can contribute to soreness and cracking if the nipple remains moist after nursing, sort of like the way your chapped lips get worse if you lick them. Avoid using other creams on your nipples, including Bag Balm (great for cows, not for humans) and Vitamin E. Don't use soap on your nipples as it can dry the skin. Bathing with clear water is all you need to keep your nipples clean.
- A new product called Soothies is now available to help soothe and speed the healing of sore nipples. This is an amazing product: round hydro-gel pads that you store in the fridge and wear between feedings. See Soothies product page for more information.
-Expose your nipples to air as much as possible. Leave the flaps on your bra down, and if the weather permits, expose them to sunlight for a few minutes each day. I emphasize FEW minutes there are few things more painful than sunburned breasts.
- Try to keep your perspective when dealing with nipple soreness. It usually clears up within a few days, and rarely reoccurs once your baby and you get the hang of nursing effectively as a team. It always makes me sad when mothers quit nursing because of soreness, because the long-term benefits of breastfeeding far outweigh the short- term pain. It really is worth hanging in there ask any nursing mother, and she'll tell you she's glad she didn't give up when the going got rough.
Anne Smith is an IBCLC International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and La Leche Leader since 1978. More importantly, she is a mother to 6 breast fed kids with twenty plus years experience of counseling nursing mothers. Her site, www.BreastfeedingBasics.com , provides expert advice and solutions to breast-feeding problems and gives basic information on how to breast feed. Anne also features her recommended breast feeding products and breast pumps.