This has been on my mind lately. In fact, this has been gnawing at me quite a bit. <\/p>\n
Why do some parents not take responsibility for the action of their children?<\/p>\n
I experience this quite a bit. A person I know refuses to ever hold themselves accountable for anything their children may do. If their child breaks something that belongs to someone else, this person refuses to replace it. I asked them why they think that they should not and the answer always is the same: \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t do it.\u00e2\u20ac?<\/p>\n
What? It is beyond me how anyone could not understand that if their child does something wrong, it reflects on them as a parent. Most parents I know would fall over themselves apologizing, punish the child if the behavior was intentional, then replace the item. Accidents are another matter, which punishment should not be given, but a good explanation of why the accident resulted in the break,injury, or other damage.<\/p>\n
Recently, an expensive gaming platform of ours was damaged by this person\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s child. We barred them from touching it again, and the parent thinks we are being unreasonable. This person also lies, refuses to believe in consequences for any of their own actions, then wonders why the children they have raised do not behave in a normally acceptable fashion<\/p>\n
As parents, we need to hold ourselves accountable for our children\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s actions and behavior. But, before we can wonder why our children behave poorly (if they do), we need to take a good look at our own behavior. Are we setting good examples? <\/p>\n
Children learn by watching their parents. It sounds simple enough, but some parents do not understand this. I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know why, perhaps there is something missing in their thought process. We all know these types and at one time or another, we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve all been as flabbergasted as I am now.<\/p>\n
So, for those who are not quite sure on how to avoid setting a bad example, here are a few tips. Those of you who know what I mean, smile with me.<\/p>\n
1. Lying.
\nIf you lie, your children will as well. More than likely, to you.<\/p>\n
2. If you act as if you\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll never have to pay a bill, your children will probably live with you until they\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re 50.<\/p>\n
3. Commit a crime, then act like it was a joke? Be prepared to share a cell with your child one day in the future. He\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll never take authority seriously.<\/p>\n
4. Did your child break something and you won\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t replace it? Then don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t get upset when she breaks YOUR stuff.<\/p>\n
5. If you can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t keep a job, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t complain about how your son and wife move in with you later on down the road. He\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s only living as he learned. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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